Lack of Regret & Your Love Life
Years ago, I asked people about regret on this site. People overwhelming said they had no regrets. It was a tagine at the time, but I was still very surprised.
I had many regrets, mostly around my mouth going off. But egads, I definitely had regrets and people actually tried to talk me out of having them. Join the party, where everything you do is excused!
I held my ground. I’ve suffered my regrets and sure enough, I altered my behavior and generated far fewer regrets, going forward. Now, twenty years later, I’ve got all these Saturn flavored transits going and I’m mulling this.
I started thinking about the current times. I imagine people do feel regret at this point in time. I came to this conclusion considering how incredibly hard it is to find a viable partner. It seems human nature to look back and realize, this or that person was nowhere near the reject you convinced yourself they were. Hindsight is 20-20?
Post Saturn return age, a person without regrets is probably going to be pretty shallow and possibly delusional. You only need dig a few inches, you’ll run right into your shadow.
What do you think about this? Do you have a lot of regret? A little? None? Assuming you do, at what age did they hit you? Or was it a transit?